Love the Haters: Why Criticism is a Good Thing

A customer says something bad about you, for all to see. What do you do business?  What do you do?

Multiple Choice Question:
A)   Ignore it.
B)   Listen and acknowledge the complaint.
C)   Engage to determine the problem so as not to do it again.
D)   Sever all contact and go about your business like it never happened.

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The old "if you hide, they'll go away" strategy

I was really excited about the release of Netflix to Canada. I’m a movie freak that was going to get an onslaught of films.  Hell, their twitter account started following me the day before they begin the rollout. It was all very exciting.

Well the product didn’t have the variety I was hoping for and they hit a public relations hiccup by paying actors to be enthusiastic members of the announcement audience…so I tweeted. I tweeted my displeasure. What did Netflix do? They stopped following me.

“Social” in social media means to engage.

Did I have a reason to be annoyed? Of course I did, I’m a paying customer. What should they have done? Either responded to my criticism or, at the least, listened. I understand it’s a big day for the,m so you may not see every tweet but you must have seen mine or you wouldn’t have unfollowed me.

I’ve spoken with people that are nervous of criticism online. A bad comment that sits on their Facebook wall, a verbal attack on Twitter…but these aren’t bad thigns. This is an amazing opportunity to clarify information, find out how you can better your product/service and show your customers you care. A chance to show your human side. They obviously care or they wouldn’t have complained.

Netflix went with “D”, I suggest “C.” If a customer has something negative to say, look at it as an opportunity to build a relationship, not to end one.

 Love the Haters: Why Criticism is a Good Thing

When Lying to Your Waiter Is OK…Unless They Believe You

It’s been a bit of a stretch since my last pet peeve rant so I figured I was due. Not that I don’t have lots, I’ve just been happy to share a few kudos, guest blogs and business Q&As. Well that can’t stop some good old-fashioned complaining.

Dear Server,

Hi, I’m the guest of yours that just sat in your section for the better part of an hour. The meal was great, drinks enjoyable, service satisfactory….and service is the part I want to focus on. You came and went, offering specials when necessary, smiling the whole time. I wouldn’t say it was “above and beyond” but I was ready to tip out 15%. But then you blew it.

If I say I’m done, implying I don’t want anything else, you must understand I’m lying. There is something I want.

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How much is attentiveness?

I want my bill.

I want to leave. Pay for the goods. Settle up. Vamoose.

What I don’t want is to wait. I don’t want to watch you while you talk to your co-workers. I don’t want to see you walk through your section repeatedly while some how not walking by my table. Guess what’s still happening? I’m still waiting.

And the longer I wait, the smaller your tip gets and the bigger my hatred grows. Should I spell it out for you? Do I need to say, “Just the bill, please?”

And you’re not off the hook if you do bring the bill but don’t come back. Sorry, I know you thought you did well figuring out my request, but I want to pay with cash/credit card/debit and I still need you for that.

Believe me, the longer I wait, the less I’ll need you…ever again.

Sincerely,

Your Customer

Cheque Please! Great Waiters Make Great Social Media Gurus

That amazing waiter you just had who knew how to talk to you, didn’t push, kept you informed, fixed that little issue you had and made you want to come back? He could do great things for you online.

Think about the skills a great waiter brings to the table (pun intended):

  • Reads the “tone” of the table (i.e. how one person maybe approached differently than another)
  • Suggests and solves, doesn’t sell.
  • Portrays positivity.
  • Presents professionalism
  • Adds a bit of personality.
  • Ensures it is about the customers’ experience, not the restaurant’s bottom line or the servers’ tip.
  • Communicates honestly when a part of the night fails (food, wait times, etc.) and initiates dialogue on how to fix the situation.
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Would you like Facebook with that?

How is this not social media 101? This is the type of person you want speaking for your brand. This is the approach your company should be taking with their customers, potential or otherwise, to build a relationship and keep them coming back. Restaurants have “regulars” for a reason.

Social media is a tool of engagement. It’s the person using the tool that makes it successful.

And please, tip your social media expert.

 Cheque Please! Great Waiters Make Great Social Media Gurus

Getting Engaged: Freedom of Speech Makes You Unattractive

To follow up on my previous blog post, Yukari and I discuss how the use of freedom of speech, or really just saying anything you want, can have an impact on your professional future. Sad but true. Have you ever had this problem? Do you totally disagree?

QUALITY CHECK: Icing Sugar, Fruit and Service from WannaWafel

The new, bright and shiny QUALITY CHECK – Q&A FOR BUSINESS is courtesy of Renaat with WannaWafel, an authentic Belgian waffel house in Victoria B.C.  Now I’m hungry.

1) What is your definition of bad customer service?
Being approached, after having paid and served, without a word or expression makes me want to turn around and leave. Damn!!! Why did I pay? The lack of human emotion or interaction kills me. It tells me that itʼs not their business or, if it is, they donʼt like their business or they donʼt want your business and donʼt care at all. Doomed to disappear.

Also, not being greeted when I arrive will make me turn around before I even order. I don’t care if they are students who are heavily underpaid and just doing what theyʼve been told to do…they have to start realizing that it is because of the returning customers that they have a job. Customer care should be, by far, the most important training focus.

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So, do you wanna?

2) From a retail perspective, whatʼs one of your customer service pet peeves?
When people come in and donʼt respond to your greeting, as if  they’re a rock or ice block brought in to your shop. They look around and walk away without a word. Could that be that they feel like they have to buy something once they start talking? It makes me feel like ʻwhatʼs wrong with me or my cute little store?’

3) Can you provide an example of how you turned a bad experience into a good one through customer service?
Having customers from around the world visiting our waffle cart in the Inner Harbour, bigger groups tend to surround you while talking in their foreign language. This can be quite intimidating and overwhelming because you have no idea what they are talking about. There faces are pretty serious and they feel great that they can comment on everything without me having a clue. I know how that feels as a Flemish person.

Good thing I did pay attention during my first business year and enjoyed wondering how other cultures say :”Bon a petit” or “enjoy”. So, whenever I have a pretty tense situation going on like that and I’m able to guess the language they are speaking through listening and their physiognomy, I say just that one word in there language, like “Masarap.” They all start laughing as if I just said: “I love you.”

They change completely, order more waffles, take pictures and some of them just
wonder if I just understood everything they were talking about. It feels really great when you can open up a persons’ face, which was at first very grumpy, and turn it in to a bright smile. It becomes so much easier to start and develop a conversation.

Thanks Renaat for answering my Q&A. FYI – WannaWafel will be making an upcoming appearance on CBC’s Dragon’s Den. I’m looking forward to it.

Freedom of Speech Makes You Unattractive

Just because you can saying anything online, doesn’t mean you should. Wave hello (or is that good-bye?) to possible employers.

I recently had a discussion with @PatrickTussie who argued that he enjoyed a separate Twitter account from his work account because he had the freedom to say anything he wanted.

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Fill this bubble with the good, smart words.

But should he?

We now live in a world where everything we say online is Googlable (it’s now a word). Every future employer, every business opportunity is checking you out. Employees are a part of a company’s brand. Do you think they want to hire the person sharing profanity, sexual innuendo or inappropriate comments?

Last year, a study showed 35% of companies found online content that prevented them from hiring someone. I’m sure that percentage has only gone up.

This blog is as much about customer relations as it is about engagement. Enjoying freedom of speech, a little too much, can’t be the best way to brand yourself and engage with others. I actually stop following anyone that uses overly inappropriate language. I don’t mind the odd swear word to reinforce a point but if that’s the limited vocabulary you have…I don’t need that in my Twitter stream. I have more interesting people to engage with. What do you think employers are thinking?

Everyone and anyone is listening.

Using inappropriate comments makes you unattractive to companies. Unattractive to peers. Unattractive to your network. Unattractive to your tribe.

Creativity, personality, and individualism can be expressed. Are you doing it in the right way?

 Freedom of Speech Makes You Unattractive